"Bad Habits that make a Husband to abandon his Wife"

i) Poor body hygiene.

     It should be recalled that a woman’s beauty and attractiveness depends on her body hygiene, not even on the quality of dresses or household utensils she has. Hygiene is the act of keeping one’s body and environment clean. After married, some women no longer take good care of themselves. They mind very little about themselves, especially in cleaning certain body parts like teeth, breast shape, finger nails, genitals, hair and facial make up.

    The husband of such a woman may not regularly complain, but may not be feeling comfortable with such manners. If he happens to be engaged with a woman of better hygienic standards, he may decide to change his mindset. It should be noted here that the cleanliness and order in which a woman keeps her house is a great attractive force that makes the husband to always be at home or feels to come home early from work. House disorder makes your sweet heart to always want relax outside during free time, and such relaxation avenues are very tempting .If your house is always neat, the parlor and kitchen always orderly, your husband may even at times want to eat in the kitchen when you cook. He may, prefer to share an evening drink with the you at home rather than go to nearby snacks. This closeness gives room for intimate discussions, attachment to family, and family evening prayers.

   

  

 The absence of the above simple hygienic principles will likely cause your husband to keep concubines outside who always make sure they keep their rented apartment in perfect order where your husband will find true comfort. Any woman who fails to practice simple body and environmental hygiene complains of the husband keeping concubines; saying he maintains and keeps the concubine better than her and the children at home. Any woman should understand that her husband likes comfort, and the provision of this is her responsibility. She should maintain basic hygiene to make herself and environment both comfortable for husband and children.

ii) Unpleasant Mouth or Body Ordour: This Is the air that comes out from a person’s mouth or body. Although people naturally have body ordour, that from the mouth is usually determined by the food consumed and how regular the mouth is cleaned. When sweetened food is eaten and the mouth is not cleaned especially overnight, the particles stocked between the teeth may start to decompose and, tartar will start to form on the teeth. This, prolonged, will lead to permanent bad mouth ordour. Smokers also experience this.

  The first effect is that during love making, the husband may not want to face the wife who has this ordour not to talk of kissing her. If your husband experiences this more often, he feels less and less satisfied with love making hence start distancing him self from the you. He will likely seek refuge where conditions are favorable. As  a solution to this, brush your mouth twice daily that is, when you get out of bed and just before you go to bed in the evening using good tooth paste. Some mouth ordour come from the stomach directly. You will have to consult a doctor in a situation like this or mind what you eat. Certain fermented food stuff contributes to mouth ordour that comes directly from the stomach.

 There are women who have body ordour especially when they do some manual work or trek for a while. This is caused by active metabolic activities within the system that release dead cells through pores of the body. Accumulation of these cells produces the ordour. If you are a victim, meet a skin doctor (dermatologist) and complain to him. He or she may prescribe a special body lotion and bathing soap. You can decide to have a bath twice or thrice a day using good bathing soap.

iii)  Vaginal Smell or Unshaved Pubic Hair.

     After intercourse, the smell from the vagina of a poorly hygienic woman is always disgusting, and this should not be the case. You have to wash your vagina regularly as you bath your body. You should wash it especially before and after intercourse. Vagina smell the “rotten fish saint” can be very irritating and can cause a husband to avoid intercourse with the wife and may even cause some to reject food cooked by the wife. You need to pay close attention to your vagina.

        

  Regular shaving of the pubic hair is a biological phenomenon that keeps away pubic lice and ease cleaning .If allowed to look very bushy, it will disturb intercourse as some of the hair will be forced to enter the vagina by the penis, causing pains to the woman, and may even cause bruises to the husband’s penis. A woman should always shave her vagina because a shave pubic region looks enticing to the husband. An unshaved vagina looks very nasty especially during menstruation .Imagine your husband seeing it with menses on. He would lose sexual appetite and be forced to go out.

iv) Dirty inner wears; pants, breast wears, vests.

   It has been proven that most men have the first stretch of their penis just by seeing a part of a lady’s breast wear, waist slip, and to an extend her pant. Some women have confirmed that these are some of the items they use in seducing men. A hygienic conscious woman makes sure these wears are always sparkling and up to date to resonate her husband’s sexual appetite. It is but normal that these inner wears be kept underneath to preserve your privacy and dignity. In a home where a woman’s inner wears a nasty, the husband will always turn to another woman outside who shows a clean attitude towards the above. Let your inner wear match the beautiful dresses on you. What some women put under their very expensive dresses is very bad to the eyes.

    There is a saying that a man owns the compound while the woman owns the house. The children learn what the mothers does most especially because they believe she provides food for the family hence will tend to believe in what ever attitude she possesses. Experience has shown that if the wife is very orderly, so will be the children. There will less stress on the part of the husband and the family will live happily and prosperous.

    Wives are not the only ones abandoned by their husbands. Some husbands also have bad habits that have led to their wives abandoning them. I will write about men's bad habits as soon as I am done with women. This will not take long. Be patient and follow up . There quite much in stock for you. As you read try to apply the solutions proposed here. You will do great justice to yourself by applying the proposed solutions.

     

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